5 reasons you are not achieving your goals

5 reasons you are not achieving your goals

 

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Spasht, likhit laksho wale log, kam samay ke gam logo ki uss abdhi me kahi adhik hasil karte hai, jiske bad kabhi kalpana bhi nehi ki jaa sakti thi. Hum sab waha rahe hai: aapne laksho ki disha me kaam karne ke liye nikal diya gayi hai, lekin taab raste me asafal rahi. Lakhsh prapt na karna discouraging karne wala ho sakta hai aur hume anyo sarthak lakhsh nirdharit karne se roak sakti hai. Jab hum turant ek lakhsh tak nehi pahuch pate hai, toh discouraging mahesus karne ki bajay, Halaki hume kuch samay leni chahiye aur is par chinta karni chahiye ki hum us lakhsh ko puri kyu nehi kar paye taki hum samagra anuvab se sikh sake aur bar sake. Smart Goal setting ye sunischit karne ki sabse achchi tarika hai ki aap apne lakhsh tak pohochenge, aur kuch aasan kadam hai jinse aap bahetar lakhsh nirdharit kar sakte hai aur fir unse mil sakte hai. Yaha 5 karan diye gaye hai jo aap apne laksho ko prapt nehi kar sakte hai aur in samasyao ko thik karne ke best tarike hai.

1.    Paheli karan jo aap apne laksho tak nehi pohoch paa rahe hai, wo ye hai ki wo bohot aspasht hai. Kai bar, log aise laksho nirdharit karte hai jo bohot aspasht hote hai. Aap soch sakte hai “mai aakar me prapt karna chahti hu” ya meri saving account me bohot paisa hona bastab me bohot achchi hogi. Aur yakin hai ki ye bohot achchi hogi lekin jab tak aap aapne laksho ko adhik bishes roop se outline nehi karte hai, aap shayad un tak nehi pohochenge. Bishist lakhsh isliye sahayak hote hai kyuki jab aap bastab me wohi karni chahate hai, jo aap karni chahte hai toh aapne aapko aisa karne ki kalpana karna aasan hai aur fir bastab me gatiyo ke maadhyam se jaana. “Mujhe aakar mai prapt karni hai” kahene ki wajay, ye kahene ki koshis kare ki “mai hafte me tin din kasrat karne aur soda pine se rokne jaa rahi hoo”. Thik usi tarha aapki lakhsh kuch aspasht se paribartit ho gayi hai jise aap kuch specific banane chahte hai jo aap karne jaa rahe hai.

 

2.    Ek aur karan ho sakti hai ki aap aapne laksho ke saath struggling kar rahe hai, aap unhe quantify nehi kar rahe hai. Goal setting ki baat ane par ek common mistake ye hai ki aapke lakhsh measurable nehi hai. Kya aap apne lakhsh ki evaluate kar sakte hai aur aapni progress ko map sakte hai? Yadi nehi to aapne mul lakhsh ko punarjibit karna aur kamzor karna shayad ek achcha bichar hai. Udaaharan le lijiye, yadi aap kahete hai ki “meri lakhsh adhik paisa bachana hai”, toh ise maapna muskil hai. “Adhik” ki kya aarth hai? Us lakhsh ko kai alag-alag tariko se describe ki jaa sakti hai aur aap $10 ki bachat ke liye khood ko pith par pat kar sakte hai jab bastab me $10 se aap bohot kuch kharid nehi sakte hai. Lekin aagar aapko kaha jaye ki aapki lakhsh hai garmi tak $5000 ki bachat karni hai, toh aapni progress ko track karna aasan hai. Fir aap niyamit roop se aapne bank account ki jaach kar sakte hai ki aap $5000 ke kitne kareeb hai. Aur raste me, aap prerit rahenge kyuki aap dekhenge ki aap aapne lakhsh ke kitne kareeb hai.

 

3.    Aagli karan ye hai ki aap unattainable goal ko nirdharit kar rahe hai. Lakhsh nirdharit karna romanchak hai. Aapke pas grand plans ho sakte hai jaise ki ek karorpati banni ya aapne sapno ki ghar banana. Lekin aagar aap bar ko bohot ucha set karte hai, toh aap aapne laksho tak nehi pohochenge, aur aap aapne aap me nirash honge. Iska mukabla karne ka ek aasan tarika laksho ko nirdharit karna hai jo achievable hai. Maan lijiye ki aap us sapno ka ghar banana chahte hai. Yeh kahete hue ki “Mai aapne paribaar ke liye aagle 6 mahino me ek nayi ghar banana chahti hu”. Ye ek achievable goal nehi hai. Ghar banane me samay lagte hai. Isliye ek adhik realistic goal “mai ek thekedaar ko khojne aur budget banane jaa rahi hu” ho sakte hai. Ek bar jaab aap un lakhsh ko achieve kar lete hai, toh aap baki process ke bare me soch sakte hai aur yeh decide kar sakte hai ki aapki aagle realistic goal kya ho sakte hai.

 

4.    Doosra karan ye ho sakti hai ki aap aise lakhsh nirdharit kar rahe hai jo aapke jivan ke liye irrelevant hai. Yakin hai ki aap New York saher ya Caribbean me jaane ki bichar pasand kar sakte hai. Lekin kya ye lakhsh bastab me aapke jivan ke liye prasangik hai? Us lakhsh ko prapt karna mazedar ho sakti hai, lekin aagar ye aapke jivan ki overall plan par aapko ye sunischit karne ki awashakta hai ki aapke lakhsh aapke samay ki barbadi nehi hai. Prattek lakhsh ko ise prasangik banane me madad karne ke piche ek uddeshyo honi chahiye. Caribbean me jaane ke wajay sirf isliye ki nila pani bohot sundar dikhti hai, ek bahetar lakhsh ho sakti hai, “Mai Caribbean me jana chahti hu kyuki mere industry me jobs ke liye bohot sare opportunities hai.

 

5.    Aur aantim karan jo aap aapne uddeshyo par kam par sakte hai, wo ye hai ki aap samay-sima awashakta nehi joar rahe hai. Aapke dwara dekhe jaanewale prattek lakhsh ke liye ek samay-sima jorni awashak hai. Jaab aap aapne laksho ke liye ek samay-sima jorti hai, toh aap unke prati kaam karne ke liye bohot adhik prerit honge aur ye sunischit karenge ki isse pahele ki aap samay-sima samapt kar le. Ye kiski tarha dikhti hai? Yeh aasan hai: kahene ke bajay “Mai 3 mahine me aapni company ke liye do ya adhik employees ko hire karna chahti hu”. Fir aap lakhsh tak pohochne aur aage barne ke liye adhik prerit honge.

 

Yadi aap bahetar lakhsh nirdharit karna shuru karne ke liye taiyar hai, toh ye free-guide ko dekhe, jo aapke laksho ko achieve karne me madad karne ke liye available hai.

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