Don’t allow your life to be controlled by these 5 things

 

Don’t allow your life to be controlled by these 5 things

Kaise hai aap log? Hope you all are doing very very well. Chaliye suru karte hai aaj ka humara topic. Toh Aaj humara topic hai ki aapne life me kaunsi cheezo se dur rahe taki wo aapke life ko control na kar sake, kyuki wo aapke liye hanikarak hai. Toh der na karke chaliye direct topic me chalte hai.

Aapne Jeevan ko in 5 cheezo se niyantrit na hone de-

Bohot se log apne jivan, paristhitiyo ki daya par bitate hai. Dusre logo ki daya par rahena. Present me nehi raha rahe hai, kyuki wo aapne past ki jail me fas gaye hai.

 Yadi aap ek achche jivan jeena chahte hai toh inme se kisi bhi cheez se khud ko niyantrit na kare.

Number 1: Your Past

Number 2: Other peoples’ opinions and judgements

Number 3: Limited beliefs you project on yourself

Number 4: Relationship

Number 5: Money

 

Number1:  Aapne past ko aapne present ya aapne future ke jivan ko niyantrit karne ke anumati na de. Jo bhi ho, aapko unhe jane dena chahiye. Aapne past ke dard ko peeche chor de. Toh yeh aapke future ko barbaad nahi kar sakta. Aapne past ke aandhere ko peeche chor de. Toh ye aapke bright future ke light ko block nahi kar sakti hai. Aapke past choot gaya. Chahe kuch bhi hua ho, chahe croor, kathor, chahe jo bhi ho aisi ghatnao se chutkara aapko kabhi bhi achcha nahi karega. Aagar kisi ne aapke sath galat kiya hai toh aap in sabko piche chorke aur aage bar ke jit sakte hai. Aur yehi ek matra tarika hai. Yadi aap nafrat me rahte hai, toh wo jitte hai. Yadi aap pireet kahani me rahte hai toh wo jit jaate hai. Yadi aap jitna chahte hai toh aapko aapna future banane ke aur abhi shuru karne par dhyaan dena chahiye. Aapne pith se uss bhar ko mukt kare taki aap mukt ho sako. Past ke ghatnao ke anumati na de, jo aapke is pal ko barbaad karane ke liye taiyar hai. Jo is pal ke liye perfect hai jise aapko enjoy karni hai. Jo aapke liye poori tarah se jeene ke liye taiyar hai.

 

Number2: Anya logo ki ray aur nirnay ko aapne jivan ki disha ko niyantrit karne ki anumati na de. Fit rahene aur mahesus karne ki aavashyakata se aap un paths ki yatra kar sakte hai jaha aap yatra nahi karna chahte hai. Logo ko Prasanna karna ek abhishap hai jise har kimaat par taala jaana chahiye. Isse pahele ki aap kuch bhi kare, aapne aap se pooche; kya mai aisa kar raha hoo kyuki mai aisa karna chahta hoo ya agar mai nahi karta toh doosro se faisle ke dar ke karan. Aap ek unique reason ke liye janam liye hai. Aapne Prakash ko bandh mat karo taaki aap anyo logo ke jivan ke dull background me fit ho sake. Aise hi chamak te rahiye jaise aap hai. Jo aapke liye care karte hai woh bhi aapke sath aapke chamak dekhenge aur aapke saath chamkenge.

 

Number3: Aapne simit biswaso se aapne jivan ko niyantrit na hone de. Aab iske sath ek chetavni hai. Ye biswas conscious ho sakte hai, lekin samvabana se adhik unconscious hai. Aise bohot sare log hote hai jo aapne aas paske logo ke baat sunke kam umaar me ya unke baad aapne dreams ko fulfil nahi kar pate hai. Aapni khood ki maanyataon par dhyaan de aur unhe band karane ke liye kahe. Aisa kuch bhi nahi hai jo aap nahi kar sakte. Kuch bhi aapke pas nahi ho sakta hai aur koi bhi aap nahi ban sakte hai yadi aap khood par biswas karte hai. Yadi aap maante hai ki kuch bhi samvab hai, toh anumaan lagao, kuch bhi samvab hai! Jab aap apne biswas ko limited se unlimited me badalte hai toh aapki potential unlimited hote hai. Kalpana kijiye ki aap kya hasil kar sakte hai yadi aap aapna jivan aise jiye jaise ki kuch bhi samvab hai. Chamatkar ke maadhyam se har din ek standard requirement rahte hai. Jaise ki kaha jaate hai:” Jaab aapne aandar koi dooshman nahi hota hai, toh baahar ka dooshman aapko koi nukshaan nahi pahucha sakta hai.” Jaab aapke pas wapas pakarne ke liye aapke aandar kuch bhi nahi hai, toh baahar kuch bhi nahi hai jo aapko wapas pakar sakti hai. Aapke poori jivan aapki manasikata ko badalne ke liye aapke dara taye kiye gaye instant Parivartan ko badal degi. Instant aap sab kuch ek uphaar ke rup me dekhne ka nirnay lete hai. Jab aap har paristhiti aur chunauti ko ek abhishap ke bajay ek Ashirwad ke roop me dekhne ka nirnay lete hai, toh aap turant is tathya ke prati sachet ho jate hai ki sab kuch waisa hi hai jaisa ki hona chahiye aur yeh janna chahiye ki pagal kya hai.

 

Number4: Rishta, ek touchy bishay lekin aagar aapko humesha khush rahene ke liye doosro ko khush karni zaroori ho toh aap ek tutte huye rishte ki kareeb hai. Ho sakte hai wo bekti aapko chor dete hai ya dookhi hote hai ya aapke sath bonding achche se nehi chal rahe hai. Mai rishto se bachne ka sujhao nahi de raha hoo. Prem aur sambandh se bare is dhartee par koi shakti nahi hoti. Mai un logo ke bare me baat kar raha hoo jo agar kisi rishte me nahi hai toh wo jee nahi sakti. Jo log kisi ke sahit, galat logo ke sahit rahene se bachne ke liye single hote hai. Mai jo kaha rahi hoo wo enough mental strength develop karne ke liye hai ki aap us point par pahuche jaha aapko doosro ko khush karne ki aabhyasakhta nahi hai. Aap akele hone me utne hi khush hai, jitne aap ek rishte me hai.

 

Number5: Yeh wo hai jo planet par manushyo ke majority ko niyantrit karti hai. Kya aap andaja laga sakte hai ki yaha kya hai? Paise. Iska matlab ye nahi ki aapko abundance nahi chahiye. Ye nahi hai ki paisa bure hai. Aap jante hai ki aap kya mahan cheeze karti hai aur kitne logo ke madad kar sakte hai. Iska matlab kya hai, aapne faislo ko paiso se niyantrit karne ki anumati na de. Yadi aap keval is factor par kuch choon rahe hai ki kitne paise shamil hai. Aapne sirf galat nirnay liye hai. Aap jo paoge, wo yaha hai ki jab aap apne dil ka anusaran karte hai aur aap doosro ko aapna best dene ke liye doosro ki sewa karne ke iirade se aage barte hai- Every single day. Jab aap apne intuition ko follow karte hai aur sahi mayne me aapni aatma dete hai, toh paisa aa jayegi aur yaha adhik se adhik matra me ayega yadi aap keval paise ka picha karne ke liye paise ka picha karte hai. Isliye jis jivan ko aap jina chahte hai, use jine ke liye khood ko chunauti de. Kisi bhi cheez se niyantrit hone se mukt hoiye. Apne freedom ko pahechaniye. Poori tarha se jiyo!!

 

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